As the New Year approaches, take inventory of those who are in your life. Move forward in 2014 surrounded by family and friends who will be just as supportive in the relationship as you will be. Your inner circle of friends should be positive people who will help make you a better person, who will be there for you through trials and tribulations.
They should be people that have integrity and high morals. It is not only ok but healthy physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually to let go of the people in your life who are only there for your unconditional love, unconditional respect, unconditional help, unconditional support and unconditional time. However when you are in need of such things…there always seems to be CONDITIONS!
God wants us to love, to be kind, supportive, encouraging and helpful to others...However, He does NOT want us to be doormats for ANYONE! It would be very beneficial to you to keep "friends", such as these at an arm’s length.
Do not allow yourself to get smothered by someone who is continuously needy and draining on you. When you are always trying to help someone else straighten out their lives, you lose sight of your vision and your goals! Besides that, you are not helping them learn how to stand on their own!
So as the sun sets on this year, let all the disappointments, pain and heartaches you had this year go with it. Clear out all negativity and make room for love, hope and faith to reign in your heart! Strive to keep stretching yourself to be more like Y’shua (Jesus) every day.
Have a blessed and wonderful New Year’s Eve, my friend. Be safe and remember NOT to DRINK and DRIVE...as many of you know, my brother John was killed by a drunk driver! May there always be Shalom in your heart and in your home! {{giggles & hugs}}}
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